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Moments Together for Couples: 365 Daily Devotions for Drawing Near to God & One Another

Moments Together for Couples: 365 Daily Devotions for Drawing Near to God & One Another

by Dennis Rainey

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January 1


Teach me Thy way, O Lord; I will walk in Thy truth.
P S A L M 8 6 : 1 1

One foggy night, the captain of a large ship saw what appeared to be another ship’s lights approaching in the distance. This other ship was on a course that would mean a head-on collision. Quickly, the captain signaled to the approaching ship: “Please change your course 10 degrees west.” The reply came blinking back through the thick fog: “You change your course 10 degrees east.”

Indignantly, the captain pulled rank and shot a message back to the other ship: “I am a sea captain with 35 years of experience. Change your course 10 degrees west!”

Without hesitation, the signal flashed back: “I am a seaman, fourth class. You change your course 10 degrees east!”

Enraged, the captain realized they were approaching each other quickly and would crash within minutes. So he blazed his final warning: “I am a 50,000-ton freighter. Change your course 10 degrees west!”

A simple message winked back: “I am a lighthouse. You change your course!”

Like the sea captain, we may need to change course when confronted with the truth. That’s what happens when we make it a priority to spend time reading and applying God’s Word. It is eternal truth. It doesn’t change, so we need to adjust our lives to walk in that truth.

So many of us spend our lives avoiding the truth of God’s Word because we don’t want to walk in it. Christ said in John 8:32 that “the truth shall make you free,” but as Herbert Agar wrote in A Time for Greatness, “The truth that makes men free is for the most part the truth which men prefer not to hear.”

What is the Bible to you A collection of nice stories The foundation of a conservative worldview Or is it God’s Word, “living and active and sharper than any two-edged sword” (Heb. 4:12). Does anything keep you from obeying God’s Word in every area of your life—your business, your marriage, your family Do you need to adjust the course on which you are heading today


Is there a truth you have been avoiding in your life—an area of your relationship you have been unwilling to confront


That God’s Word will be your guide in decision making and your rock in establishing family values and priorities.

January 2


Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise men, but as wise, making the most of your time.
E P H E S I A N S 5 : 1 5 , 1 6

Someday, when the kids are gone, there will be plenty of ice cream just for Barbara and me. I won’t find the can of Hershey’s chocolate on the lower shelf…empty and with a sticky bottom. We will return to a small refrigerator and eat on the antique table we used when we were first married. Cars will be clean again. The floorboard won’t be covered with Sunday School papers or petrified McDonald’s french fries. And gum, Legos, Matchbox cars, doll combs and even fishhooks won’t be smushed into the carpet.

Doors will be shut, and I won’t have to go through the house turning off every light. We won’t stumble over herds of teddy bears, dolls and stuffed animals grazing or napping on the carpet.

Fewer tools will be lost. No frantic search parties at bedtime for lost blankets. Socks will miraculously find their mates, and the car keys will be right where I left them.

But of course other things will have changed, too.

When the kids are gone, we won’t hear the pitter-patter of little feet running down the hallway, then feel a warm, wiggly body crawling into bed and snuggling with us early on Saturday morning.

No more little-girl, frilly Easter dresses or first days of school. No winter picnics or log cabin playhouses. No more fishing and hunting trips or wiener roasts or just goofing around with a childish hand in mine.

Someday there will be no more handmade Father’s Day cards or wooden plaques titled “World’s Best Mom.” No more crayon drawings, verses and stick people drawn on construction paper and displayed on the refrigerator. So until someday arrives, we’re going to cherish our moments together. We’re going to try to take seriously—but happily—the apostle Paul’s counsel: “Making the most of your time.”

Sticky or not.


What “season of life” are you in right now Are you making the most of this time, fulfilling your responsibilities with contentment, joy and appreciation


For contentment and for the ability to focus on what God has called you to presently do.

January 3


And Jesus said, “Who is the one who touched Me” And while they were all denying it, Peter said, “Master, the multitudes are crowding and pressing upon you.” But Jesus said, “Someone did touch Me.”
L U K E 8 : 4 5 , 4 6

With the world’s population racing toward five billion inhabitants, it may seem strange that many observers see loneliness as society’s number one need. This widespread disorder has been described as being lonely in a crowd or “crowded loneliness.”

Although it would seem that families are a natural antidote for loneliness, we all know they don’t always work that way. In large and small families among children, and between husband and wife, individual needs for “belonging” are often ignored and loneliness looms. Here are some symptoms: declaring some topics off-limits for discussion; substituting television, small talk or silence for meaningful conversation; allowing the calendar to become too crowded for time together; the wife immersing herself in the children and the husband in his work in order to avoid intimacy; refusing to confront each other on important issues and covering them up with an attitude of “peace at any price.”

Jesus lived in a tiny, crowded portion of Palestine. It was incredible that in the midst of a mob, all jostling each other, He should take note of a lonely woman’s personal touch. But that’s just what He did.

Your family can be just such a gathering—a place where each family member can experience both the security of togetherness and the meeting of individual needs.

One of Satan’s greatest strategies is to isolate people from each other. Is his demonic strategy working in your home


Which path does your family seem to be on—toward greater intimacy or isolation What schedule pressures could you adjust to give your family more opportunities for interaction


That God will give each family member some of Jesus’ ability to overcome the threat of “crowded loneliness.”

January 4


Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it.
P S A L M 1 2 7 : 1

Each fall I divide my sixth grade Sunday School class into three groups to compete in putting together a jigsaw puzzle. As these 12-year-olds scatter into three circles on the floor, I explain that there is only one rule in our competition: to put together the puzzle without talking.

The contents of one puzzle are deposited on the floor and Group One immediately goes to work. The group promptly sets up the box top that depicts the picture of the puzzle it is completing.

Then I move to the second group, dump the pieces on the floor and quickly give the group a box top. What the group doesn’t know is that the box top is for another puzzle!

The third group is given the same puzzle pieces, but it doesn’t receive a box top. Usually the kids in the group start to protest, but I quickly remind them there is to be no talking!

What follows is fascinating.

Group One is somewhat frustrated by not being allowed to talk, but it still makes steady progress. Group Two keeps trying to use the picture, but nothing seems to work. And since the kids in the group can’t say anything, their frustration level soars. The group members look at me with pleading eyes. Soon, I see the wrong box top come flying out of the group!

Group Three is interesting. Because the kids have nothing to guide them, they do their own thing. The kids give up and just lie on the floor.

Am I a cruel teacher No, there is a point that I make that day.

Life, marriages and families are like the pieces of the puzzle. The pieces are all there for us, but something is needed to help us bring order out of chaos. There are a lot of competing blueprints and pictures out there vying for your commitment and mine. It only makes sense, however, to look to the God who created the family to learn a design that will work.

It’s never too late to pull out your Bible and begin using the right box top.


Do you think you are building your family from the right blueprints Do you and your spouse have the same box top If you continue on your current path, what will your home look like


That God will give you discernment to recognize when you are building your marriage with the wrong box top.

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